I went to Saturdays, a surf shop in SOHO to see Colin Tunstall, art director and surf shop owner, on July 8, 2010.  I asked him what his romance was.  He said, “I think romance is being able to spend time.  We are always busy.  You are busy.  I am busy.  I think romance is being able to keep focus.  Leave things behind, and giving all your attention is pretty romantic.  Whatever it is, going bike ride…. something that both people enjoy doing together.  Keeping focus.  Focusing on time with each other.  Having an undivided attention. That’s where I am at right now.  I am busy.  I am too busy.  Hard for me to be romantic because I can’t think about it.”  After this interview, he was photographing me, and I was photographing him for 5 romantic minutes.